It’s Not Just a Job. It’s Your Identity.

July 27, 2025 0 Comments
When Recovery Means Rebuilding More Than Your Career

When someone says “it’s just a job,” they’ve never been made redundant at 50.
Because when you’ve poured decades into a career, built your professional reputation brick by brick, earned respect through consistent delivery, and then lose it all overnight… it hits different.
It’s not just the salary that disappears. Though let’s be honest, losing a senior-level income when you’ve got a mortgage, university fees, and aging parents to consider – that’s terrifying enough.
It’s everything else. The structure that got you up each morning. The sense of purpose that came from solving meaningful problems. The confidence that flowed from being genuinely good at something important.
For GenX+ professionals, that loss cuts to the bone. You’re not 25 anymore, with decades to figure it out. You can’t just “pivot” into a completely different field without considering school fees and pension contributions.
Your identity was wrapped up in being the expert. The go-to person. The one who could handle whatever crisis walked through the door. Strip that away, and who are you?
The answer isn’t as simple as “find another job.” Because rebuilding isn’t just about landing your next role. It’s about reconstructing your sense of self-worth in a market that seems determined to tell you your best days are behind you.
Here’s what the career coaches don’t tell you: grief is part of the process. You’re mourning the professional person you used to be. The version of yourself who had influence, respect, and a clear sense of purpose.
That’s normal. That’s human. And pretending it doesn’t hurt won’t make it heal faster.
But here’s the good news they also don’t mention. Identity doesn’t disappear when your job does. It adapts. It evolves. It finds new expressions.
You are still that leader who brought order to chaos. That expert who could diagnose problems others couldn’t see. That mentor who developed talent and built teams. That problem solver who found ways forward when everyone else was stuck.
The role changed. The company moved on. The industry shifted. But you didn’t suddenly become incompetent the day they handed you that redundancy letter.
We’re here to remind you of that truth when the rejection emails pile up and the interview feedback stings. This platform, this community, this movement – it exists to help you stand tall again when the market is trying to knock you down.
You’re not starting from scratch. You’re starting from strength. And your next chapter might just be your best one yet.

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